Life is an Inner Journeywith your One True Love
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Gayle Maree Herring DIP PLT, Counselor, Relationship Coach, Past Life Therapist, Law of Attraction Coach, Author – 6 Dimensions of Healing. Owner – Spiritual-Soulmate
Gayle became a Spiritual Counselor over 22 years ago because she was frustrated with how relationships were unfolding in her life. She could see the pain so many people went through and yet she felt powerless to help.
So she spent many years developing experience and designing tools that have helped people have better and more fulfilling relationships. Both with themselves and others.
She’s helped countless desperate people find their own path to love and happiness.
Mine isn’t a Rags to Riches story, it’s an Empowering Life Journey
Finding happiness and a Spiritual Soulmate
Just like most people, I adopted my relationship patterns from my environment. I thought that because they worked for my mother, they’d work for me too. But my personality was Melancholy, I was naturally an introvert. For me to exert myself and be friendly each time we moved (my father was in the military for 22 years), it came across as aggressive and aloof.
Like many people, I looked like I was over confident and yet I was really insecure.
I spent most of my younger years reacting to how I thought people felt about me and I only attracted more situations that were uncomfortable. So my first marriage didn’t last long as I took my insecurities with me.
By the age 23, I was a single parent of a one year old daughter and desperately unhappy. I often thought I would be better off not being here as I couldn’t see a light at the end of the tunnel.
We all need a flow of life energy
I was never diagnosed with depression, but I had nothing to look forward to and so my life energy was really low. I didn’t know how I was going to bring this young baby up on my own.
I was only just coping and working very long hours, so made the decision to move back to my home town so that I had my parents’ support. It was a big decision and a reluctant move, because I was moving back towards a lot of emotional baggage.
At 26, with a 4 year old, I became so sick I couldn’t work
I became so sick I had to give up my job. The strange thing was that they couldn’t diagnose what was wrong with me. I was finally sent to a Neurosurgeon and he diagnosed me with ‘exercising too much’. That was the best he could do.
It wasn’t true, because I had previously been an Aerobics instructor so I knew what a lot of exercise was. But there was no other avenue of medicine to go down. Having a diagnosis gave it a finality. I didn’t know where else to turn. I felt alone and afraid.
the inner journey
Finding My Own Power
I’d never been to a Spiritual Counselor before, in fact I don’t think I’d heard of one. But I was desperate enough to try anything.
I didn’t need to say much and she pinpointed the reason. She felt that I had been stressed for a long time (another pattern I adopted) and had coped because I had to. Now that I had some support and some breathing space, the stress was coming up to hit me like a tidal wave. It just had to take its course.
Did I believe her? I hadn’t had any other valid reason until now, even from a neurosurgeon and she was right. I had coped. It was just one step after the other. This diagnosis actually a big relief and it helped me to be able to recognise the same in others now.
As I was coming out of this fog, I met Allan and it helped me heal more quickly.
Life As A Spiritual Counselor
By far the most rewarding work I’ve done is to combine my intuitive gifts with Counseling work. I was guided to counseling from frustration. I wanted to be able to help Allan who was having trouble with an ex-wife and I just didn’t have the tools to help. So I began a counseling course out of frustration and I also began studying A Course in Miracles, which blended beautifully. One gave me skills and the other taught about personal responsibility.
It was 7 years later, when I was introduced to the Law of Attraction (because somebody pointed out that I was undermining myself), that things began to move in the direction of my purpose.
I found the work of counseling infused with the empowerment of Law of Attraction fulfilling and I knew I had found my purpose. Still, people didn’t really know about Spiritual Counseling, so I just called it counseling, but the people I was attracting began to make big shifts in their lives.
It was humbling work and people were searching for non-traditional counseling that could actually help them move forward. Not only were my clients women, but they were often therapists themselves. Who do therapists go to when they need help? Me.
I was understanding more and more how this Law of Attraction thing worked, so not only did I use it, but I taught it to others.
How I met my Spiritual Soulmate
It was the mid-80s. There were no personal development courses or coaches. There weren’t even computers, let alone the internet. One thing I knew for sure, there was no way I was going with traditional medicine in this mystery illness. I’d had enough of their crazy diagnoses. So I began to read self-help books and meditate.
I had always been headstrong
I had always been headstrong. That’s a term that means you don’t listen to others’ advice very often. But there was always that inner voice that told me it felt right or it didn’t. Now I know it as my Mood Barometer. I didn’t trust that inner voice implicitly back then, but I still listened. It was guiding me on an inner journey in which I had no idea where I was going or how to get there. It was just one step at a time. I had no idea the extent of the transformation that was taking place within.
I didn’t realise it at the time, and I certainly had many more years to go, but I was developing what would become our signature course.
I first met Allan at a personal development seminar. It was one of those two and a half-day commitments that made huge changes if people’s lives. This was my second time doing the course. The first was an incredible experience. This time it was going to be just as amazing but for different reasons.
It was a hugging type of workshop and when we hugged for the first time, I knew it was where I wanted to stay for the rest of my life. It was safe and sure and felt like coming home.
When we hugged for the first time, I knew it was where I wanted to be. Forever!
Over the next 30 years, we certainly had our ups and downs, but we were a good team. We were good for each other. We were still in love down the track but we were both better together. I was good on my own, but I became better someone who believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself. Allan had more confidence, patience, and understanding and his attributes began to rub off on me.
We bought a Natural Health Clinic
In February 2007, Allan was looking in the newspaper classifieds as one of our sons was looking for a job. He came across this tiny ad which read ‘Health Clinic for Sale’. We were looking for our next step, and he thought he knew which one it was. It was Mel Stewart’s clinic up in the mountains, an hour away. We had gone to him for many years. I dismissed it saying that it was a Chiropractic Clinic and we weren’t Chiropractors. I let it go, but inwardly he knew it was right and he asked for a sign.
Signs are communication from our Higher Selves
Now I’m really big on signs. They’re our higher selves communicating with us, so it would make sense to take notice. But this sign was so blatant, it even floored me.
We went out grocery shopping and I didn’t feel like going to a big shopping centre in the city, so we went to a small local one. As we walked in, who was sitting on the bench alone? It was Mel. I was stunned. Allan noticed the sign straight away, walked up to say hello and that he’d noticed the ad in the paper.
Because we had known him for years through the Clinic, he knew who we were. When Allan suggested that he’d like to buy the clinic, he was overjoyed. This small, frail man was an amazing inventor as well as Engineer, Chiropractor and Osteopath, but was a frail 83 and in failing health. He had actually just closed the clinic indefinitely.
I had to interject on this happy reunion by saying that we weren’t Chiropractors and he said that didn’t matter as he hadn’t performed Chiropractics for years. He had developed his own method and had already taught us. I didn’t know if we could afford to buy the clinic, but he said he was happy to make sure that we could.
The house lease renewal was sitting unsigned on the kitchen table and the kids were due to begin a new school year at the end of January. Within 2 weeks we were packed up and moved the hour up the mountain to begin a new life. The Clinic had a sign on the front door. Open on 7 February 2007 and it was us who opened it.
The Path of Change
In this time, we’ve had over 30,000 clients and have a database that spans the world.
Our therapies have developed over time and we’ve become more healers, than therapists. Allan attends to the physical and my area is the emotional.
In essence, when asked, I say that we fix people when they’re broken, physically, and emotionally. Our clients come from all over the world. We don’t advertise and we’ve only had a website for the past few years.
We even had the privilege of working in California for a year.
More than 30 years of love and life together and our journey hasn’t ended, it’s just begun.
You Can Attract your One True Love
There is a formula for attracting your Spiritual Soulmate. It doesn’t need to take you years to let go of the past, heal from a mystery illness and feel lost inside. It doesn’t need to be painful or confusing or even hopeless.
We’ve been asked many times over the years how to get what we’ve got. That X-factor that people look for in their relationship.
So together, Allan and I have developed a 6 week System for attracting your One True Love.