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Gayle overcame decades of debilitating patterns of relationships, from limiting beliefs and negative patterns that held her back from everything she wanted in life, to create a loving, empowering relationship, that has spanned 30 years and transformed her life.
She travels between California, USA and Cairns in Australia, helping others find their own connection and transform their lives to live the happy, abundant life they’ve always dreamed of.
When you’re connected with Source, your gifts transform into an elevated purpose and life becomes extraordinary.
Gayle has been a Spiritual Counselor and Healer for over 20 years. She blends her extensive experience with her sensitive Intuitive abilities to help people transform their lives. Not only by creating a new story but by becoming powerful, abundant attractors.
There is nothing more important than the relationship between you and your higher self. That is the only way you can ever feel connected. It’s standing in your own powerful space.
One who is connected is much more powerful than a million who aren’t. This transformation is leveraging spirit.
Mine isn’t a Rags to Riches story, it’s an Empowering Life Journey
It’s about how you can re-create your very own reality
Just like most people, I adopted my relationship patterns from my environment. I thought that because they worked for my mother, they’d work for me to. But my personality was Melancholy, I was naturally an introvert. For me to exert myself and be friendly each time we moved (my father was in the military for 22 years), it came across as agressive and aloof.
Like many people, I looked like I was over confident and yet I was really insecure. I spent most of younger years reacting and responding and I only attracted more situations that were the same.
I was 22 years old, a single parent and very unhappy. I often thought I would be better off not being here as life was just too hard.
We all need a flow of life energy
I was never diagnosed with depression, but I had nothing to look forward to and so my life energy was really low. I didn’t know how I was going to bring this young baby up on my own.
I was only just coping and working very long hours, so made the decision to move back to my home town so that I had my parents’ support. It was a big decision and a reluctant move, because I was moving back towards a lot of emotional baggage.
At 26, with a 4 year old, I became so sick I couldn’t work.
I became so sick I had to give up my job. The strange thing was that they couldn’t diagnose what was wrong with me. I was finally sent to a Neurosurgeon and he diagnosed me with ‘exercising too much’. That was the best he could do.
It wasn’t true, because I had previously been an Aerobics instructor so I knew what a lot of exercise was. But there was no other avenue of medicine to go down. Having a diagnosis gave it a finality. I didn’t know where else to turn. I felt alone and afraid.
the inner journey
Finding My Own Power
I’d never been to a Spiritual Counselor before, in fact I don’t think I’d even heard of one. But I was desperate enough to try anything.
I didn’t need to say much and she pinpointed the reason. She felt that I had been stressed for a long time (another pattern I adopted) and had coped because I had to. Now that I had some support and some breathing space, the stress was coming up to hit me like a tidal wave. It just had to take it’s course.
Did I believe her? I hadn’t had any other valid reason until now, and she was right. I had coped. It was just one step after the other. This diagnosis actually made a big impact on me and I can recognise the same in others now.
As I was coming out of this I met my soulmate and it helped me heal more quickly.
Life As A Law of Attraction Spiritual Counselor
By far the most rewarding work I have done, is to combine my Intuitive gifts with Counseling work. I was guided to counseling from frustration. I wanted to be able to help Allan who was having trouble with an ex-wife and I just didn’t have the tools to help. My counseling course was deep and I also began reading the Course in Miracles, which I transposed over the top of the counseling. They blended beautifully. One gave me skills and the other taught about personal responsibility.
It was 7 years later, when I was introduced to the Law of Attraction (because somebody pointed out that I was undermining myself), that things began to fall into place.
I found the work to be fulfilling and I knew I had found my purpose. Still, people didn’t really know about Spiritual Counseling, so I just called it counseling, but the people I was attracting began to change.
It was humbling work and people were searching for non-traditional counseling that could actually help them move forward. Not only were my clients women, but they were often therapists themselves. Who do therapists go to when they need help? Me.
I was understanding more and more how this Law of Attraction thing worked, so not only did I use it, but I taught it to others.
i listened to my intuition
It was the mid 80s. There were no personal develpment courses or coaches. There weren’t even computers, let alone the internet. One thing I knew for sure, there was no way I was going with traditional medicine. I’d had enough of their crazy diagnoses. So I began to read self-help books and meditate.
I had always been ‘head strong’
I had always been ‘head strong’. That’s a term that means you don’t listen to others advice very often. But there was always that inner voice that told me it felt right or it didn’t. Now I know it as my Mood Barometer. I didn’t trust this inner voice implicitly but I still listened. I was guided to one step and then another. This was an inner journey and I had no idea the extent of the transformation that was taking place.
I didn’t realise it at the time, and I certainly had many more years to go, but I was developing what would become my signature course. Connection through love.
This was me balancing. It wasn’t about my body at all. It was what I fed my mind. My thoughts, beliefs, understanding about life, my perspective and my reactions. It was my mind that was rebalancing. Until it did that, there was no way I would be happy with anyone or doing anything.
Then I met Allan at a personal development workshop.
When we hugged for the first time, I knew it was where I wanted to be.
We certainly had our ups and downs, but we were a good team. We were good for each other. We were still in love 20 years down the track. I was good on my own, but I became better with him. With more confidence, patience and understanding, his attributes began to rub off on me.
I began to write. In journals, automatically, I just kept writing, until eventually my thoughts became less jumbled and the fog from my brain cleared. I wrote stories for spiritual magazines, and my first book 6 Dimensions of Healing.
We bought a natural health clinic
In February 2007, Allan was looking in the newspaper classifieds as one of our sons was looking for a job. He came across this tiny ad which read ‘Health Clinic for Sale’. We were looking for our next step, and he thought he knew which one it was. It was Mel Stewart’s clinic up in the mountains, an hour away. We had gone to him for many years. I dismissed it saying that it was a Chiropractic Clinic and we weren’t Chiropractors. I let it go, but inwardly he knew it was right and he asked for a sign.
Signs are communication from our Higher Selves
Now I’m really big on signs. Their our higher selves communicating so it would be silly not to take notice. But this sign was so blatant, it even floored me.
We went out grocery shopping and I didn’t feel like going to a big shopping centre in the city, so we went to a small local one. As we walked in, who was sitting on the bench alone? It was Mel. I was stunned. Allan noticed the sign straight away, walked up to say hello and that he’d noticed the ad in the paper.
Because we had known him for years through the Clinic, he knew who we were. When Allan suggested that he’d like to buy the clinic, he was overjoyed. This small, frail man was an amazing inventor as well as Engineer and Chiropractor, but was 83. He had actually just closed the clinic indefinitely.
I had to interject on this happy reunion by saying that we weren’t Chiropractors and he said that didn’t matter as he hadn’t performed Chiropractics for years. He had developed his own method and had already taught us. I didn’t know if we could afford it, but he said he was happy to make sure that we could.
The house lease renewal was sitting unsigned on the kitchen table and the kids were due to begin a new school year at the end of January. We packed up and moved the hour up the mountain to begin a new life. The Clinic had a sign on the front door. Open on 7 February 2007 and it was us who opened it.
The Path of Change
In this time, we've had over 30,000 clients and have a database that spans the world.
Our therapies have developed over time and we've become more healers, than therapists. Allan attends to the physical and my area is the emotional.
In essence, when asked, I say that we fix people when they're broken, physically and emotionally. Our clients come from all over the world. We don't advertise and we've only had a website the past few years.
We even had the privelege of working in California for a year.
the inner journey continues
I made a commitment to change many years ago. I’m not afraid of change and I encourage it in others. There are only two things in life that are certain. Death and change!
“Happiness is not a goal, it’s a commitment.”
it doesn’t mean that we have change for changes sake, even though that can work too, but it does mean we can leverage spirit to make peace with change, rather than dig our heels in or put our brakes on. Change always presents opportunity and as humans we crave expansion. Growth is inevitable, but happiness is a choice.
The most important relationship you’ll ever transform is your own and when you work on that, I guarantee you that everything around you transforms as well.